Seeking Khula Process in Pakistan:

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Important Question Related to the Family:

Q: One of my sisters here is not treating her husband, nicely. She fights with him on matters of money and property and blames her husband's family members. She says that he must not help his parents and other family members and if she does she will start khula process in Pakistan and get divorce in Pakistan. Please let me know what Qur'an says about such matters.

Get Answer About The Family:

A: It gives us real pleasure to see that a God-fearing lady, like you, attempts to protect the rights of a husband and is not in the favour of khula process in Pakistan. Generally, the mood today is to talk about women's rights, even if it means taking the blame of being feminist. Well, God bless you for this balanced view. It is the true Islamic attitude, that we take side with the oppressed against the oppressor, rather than getting biased on gender or any other basis. Coming to your question let us first quote from the Quran: Men are the protectors [sustainers, administrators] and maintainers of women, because Allah has given the one more [strength, capability] than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore, the righteous women are devoutly obedient and guard in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them [the wives] guard [chapter 4:34] Remember please this never means that the husband takes the position of some master or lord or it does not mean that a wife cannot start khula process in Pakistan.

Administrative Position in the Family:

It is only an administrative position in the family, which confers upon him some rights and obligations. These rights have to be regarded [guarded, as Quran says] by the wife. The gender equality in the sight of Allah is evident from another Quranic verse: they are your garments [attire] and you are their garments. [2: 1871 the statement reveals equality as well as the fact that, like the garment, wife and husband should both be the source of protection, beautification, and respect for each other. The holy Prophet (peace be upon him) beautifully puts all this: the best wife is the one who carries out your instructions and when you are absent keeps a watchful eye on your right to your property and your right on her. What every married Muslim person [man or woman] must always remember is the fact that the primary objectives of marital life in Islam are: Preservation of morals and chastity [see al-Quran 4;24 -e 25]; Love and compassion; [see al-Qur'an 7: 189 and 2: 187 and 237] and 3) Mutual compatibility. By the way, let this husband also realize that he has to earn and provide for the upkeep of the family.

Divorce in Pakistan:

He should also see the irritants that could be removed that will make the wife accommodative and loving so that she may not go for khula process in Pakistan or seek divorce in Pakistan, Unless there is something seriously wrong with the husband's family members, your sister is committing a grave mistake, If possible for the husband, she can demand and avail living in separate quarter or house, but she must not compel her husband to sever relations with his family members or stop helping them if they are in real need. This lady does not realize that in due course she will [hopefully] be a mother and then mother-in-law. We don't think she can even imagine that any of her sons would then leave her unattended, only because his wife would so demand. You have asked for a reference from the Quran. See chapter 17: verses 23-26. Relevant verses in Surahs Luqman and Ankabut also command us to be kind and obedient to our parents.

In Islamic Point of View:

The Prophet (peace be upon him) is reported to have cursed the person who fails to serve his parents particularly in their old age and is thus disqualified for entry into Paradise. We pray that both parties feel their responsibility and come to terms agreeable to all and pleasing to Allah.